So then that happened |
2013-06-07
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I've been more quiet than usual lately. I guess that's what happens when you get married.
Oh, yeah, so that happened.
When I first met her years ago at a friend's birthday drink she sat next to me all night and completely ignored me.
Years later I crashed a women only outing where she happened to be as well.
A random party, a six-o'clock-in-the-morning omelette on a terrace watching the sun come up, a birthday party, a jaunt to the Gentse Feesten and a long Christmas in august later, we were already together for two months before we knew it. I took her to my sister's wedding, and not even three years later we went to our own, three weeks after I proposed. (Tip for anyone thinking of proposing: maybe the sauna isn't the best place after all)
Getting married to her ended up being the most natural decision I've ever taken. And the answer to the most-asked question? Yes, it does make a difference. No, I didn't expect it to. But it does.
Thank you to everyone who ever dumped me - I had no idea better things were coming.
Congrats Thomas!
Comment by Jean-Paul Calderone — 2013-06-07 @ 17:35
Congratulations Thomas!
Comment by Christian Schaller — 2013-06-07 @ 17:44
Congratulations Thomas!
Comment by Nushio — 2013-06-07 @ 18:08
Congratulations!
Comment by Ruben Vermeersch — 2013-06-07 @ 21:04
Congratulations! Now for the kids ;)
Comment by Gil Forcada — 2013-06-07 @ 21:55
The last line is the best ending of a blog post I’ve ever read.
Congratulations.
Comment by Ryan Patrick — 2013-06-08 @ 00:05
Congratulations, and I like that last line too.
Comment by Debarshi Ray — 2013-06-08 @ 16:43
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Pingback by Blog › Thomas Vander Stichele: So then that happened — 2013-06-08 @ 20:22
Congratulations Thomas!
Comment by Varun Priolkar — 2013-06-10 @ 07:06
“Yes, it does make a difference. No, I didn’t expect it to. But it does.”
Does it? My wife and I have been married 7 years now and it doesn’t feel a single bit different to when we weren’t. (Except for the extra €50 or so of tax breaks.)
Comment by Pad — 2013-06-10 @ 15:27
Congratulations to you, wish you both the best.
Comment by Pete — 2013-06-11 @ 13:25
Congratulations to you both! Mazel tov!
Comment by Glyph — 2013-06-11 @ 21:57
Thanks Glyph!
Comment by Thomas — 2013-07-17 @ 21:33
Yeah! Vive les mariés!
Love that last line too! :)
Comment by Kevin — 2013-06-19 @ 12:40